我認為人應該都有「普通對話」的能力,彼此傾聽與分享,進而懂得如何「深刻對話」,在對話中彼此感到「深刻」、「療癒」或者「有啟發」,那麼在討論彼此觀點、期待與行為時,方能懂得表達與接納。若無一點兒深刻對話的能力,往往討論常陷入對立,這是目前社會常見的現象
不是去看問題,而是看人的困難,若只是看問題,會將人問題化。若是看見人的困難,就會看到人的資源,看到人的力量,行為不是一個人的全部,轉化與溝通就有了可能
我關切的目標是人?或者是問題?「彼此」是否產生對話了。若對話展開了,便對人有了關心、欣賞與好奇,好奇人的選擇,以及人在處境裡的狀況……關心生命本身……生命與生命的交流
面對壓力,要如何放鬆?……壓力的成因,來自妳看待事情的態度,看待自己的態度,這與成長背景有關
honest humility ... I don't know how to solve this. I need your support ... We are kind of organizing this process but I can't do it without you ... You don't lose your face when you say I can't do it alone and all these things
sustainability is often discussed at a very technical level, but in the end it's about human beings caring, about the well-being of their children, the well-being of the non-human life around them ... it's about an emotion that connects people
Governance model is very important, not other than policy instruments. We need a governance model. Without a good governance model, those policy instruments or policies may not be chosen. Chooser may not be used may not be used properly